Marital quality from both sides grow together

Love andMarriageWhat is the relationship between it?

"Marriage is a way through the contract tried to love each other's needs in this fix to get a sense of security. Because we are afraid of losing reach between two people a sense of love and understanding. But when the marriage relationship, once achieved, does not mean that self - perfect, self-growth process has ended. in marriage, self-improvement process is in the process of paying to each other constantly self-excavation and self-discovery, to discover each other's blind spots and weaknesses of human nature, with a view to jointly improve. so that marriage and relationship has become more sustained and improved, and with Time. "
If the marriage is only one aware of this need to grow and improve, how can I do?



"This will cause pain. And this pain is very common. If the marriage of the parties are not synchronized, then you are either going to lead the growth of another person, or one person alone to grow, because each person's values and different. But it will lead to different results.


Two people grow together is an ideal marital status. If two people drifting away, not peers, then fate will be done. Fate that is done you two live together in conditions no longer exist, and have no common language, unable to communicate and exchange, were unable to reach a tacit understanding on the soul, how to talk about and grow together? If the marriage thereupon to the sea turtle metal cap cavity  remonstrance  Zhen Jing Mu kill file to stop  knock Um Minato neck only sack flounder house Huang Qiao pure sigh ġ? rdquo;

This is the door for the life lessons of love, there are any special significance?


"My eyes appear is 'responsibility' word. Including the healthChild, Including the commitment to another person. In marriage, you are so close to land and a complete stranger you are the original people living together, whether you are willing or unwilling, you need to take on the responsibility to resist the temptation of all external, so you learn to choose responsibility, and set aside all the temptations. This homework is very cruel, but it is each person must learn lessons. Watched the temptation and you pass by, see through all the temptation, and in fact all of the temptations will ultimately become a liability. "