Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Marriage is like a car





















One young woman, after marriage and her husband quarrel frequently, each time have trouble when they do not give way, each accusing the other is not. Another weekend, husband and wife after the clashes, the young woman found an attorney. Tell theMarriageMany are not happy, she asked counsel: "I am the future, the how to do?"

After listening to the young woman's complained that counsel did not directly answer her question, but to the young woman out of a theme: a large truck full of goods through a bridge opening, because of the goods can not be adopted by a few centimeters above the bridge opening. I ask, without unloading the case, how can the truck passed the bridge opening?
After listening to this issue from different angles puzzled young woman, in the end reminded lawyers, finally realized that he said: "The point of gas release to the car tires." "Right! To the tire air release point, so that the next car a few centimeters shorter on the a lawyer can be very positive young woman answered, and then changed the subject: "Then, think of it, your marriage requirement is not too high? To make the car also passed the marriage, is not it should also give himself a point of gas? "

Heard here, the young woman seems to have realized: "I know how to do a." A consultation, so that the young woman found the secret of the treatment of marriage. Since then, the young woman and her husband less and less conflict, and because she learned to give himself a gas, and learned sign of weakness, concessions,ToleranceAnd respect.

It turned out that marriage is like a car load of usLife的Hope. Load in the car before the row, we have to learn to inflation, so that your marriage smoothly forward. In the event of life, "bridge and culvert tunnel", we must learn to put gas, so that your marriage through various life obstacles.

Carefully think about it, far more than marriage,LifeAll of life, so, too? The number of times, interpersonal conflict with each other do not give both sides their territories, seems to have to make it through the gateway. However, as long as we learn to give himself a point of gas, the original of all safe and sound, the wheels of life still well ahead.

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